If you need a Surrogate to help complete your family journey, there are many steps involved. It can feel challenging and confusing. Having an advocate and guide is an excellent and valuable asset in the third party journey to parenthood.
Given the high numbers of intended parents on wait lists now for Surrogates, it is important to know that your Surrogate is choosing her Intended Parents just as you are choosing your Surrogate. As you review Surrogate profiles, you may notice being more or less drawn to someone who has a beautiful profile, friendly and warm photographs of herself and her family, possibly a message or letter to her prospective intended parents. In the same way, it is helpful when intended parents can also create a lovely presentation, typically in the form of a "Dear Surrogate" letter, that can be shared with a Surrogate of interest.
Your letter is well received when it is written in a friendly and open style, yet respectful. You may want to express your gratitude to your prospective Surrogate for the miraculous journey she is willing to embark on with you. It helps to share a few non-identifying details about you -- if you have a partner, perhaps sharing how you met, what you like to do together in your spare time, possibly a bit about why you need help from a Surrogate. In addition, Surrogates may enjoy reading about your vision of life with your future child, dreams and hopes you have, and/or other family and friends in your village who you know will also love and dote on your little miracle. Finally, Surrogates enjoy seeing a few casual photographs of you, perhaps highlighting activities or significant events that bring you joy.
Custom Fertility offers guidance and feedback on your Dear Surrogate letter as with all the other important steps of your family creation journey. We are a search service and more: We are heart-felt and caring about your match and journey forward, and we customize and guide each search so that you are on your way with as few bumps in the road as possible. Your lovingly crafted letter will help your Surrogate know when the match is right for her, just as her profile will do for you!
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